The best conversations in our lives rarely happened by accident.
Think about it — that late-night talk with your best friend, the road trip where you learned something new about your partner, the family dinner where grandma finally told that story.
What they all had in common: someone asked a real question.
Not 'How was your day?' Not 'What's new?' A question that actually opened something.
Coming up with those questions on the spot is hard. Even harder is asking them without it feeling weird.
You can't just randomly ask your dad 'What's your biggest regret?' over breakfast. (Well, you can. It's just awkward.)
We wanted to make it easy. And fun.
Not a game where you win or lose. A game where everyone discovers something.
Thousands of questions, organized by who you're with and how deep you want to go. From silly hypotheticals to questions that might make you cry (in a good way).
The card opens doors you didn't know were there.
It takes the pressure off. You can look at the card, laugh nervously, and say 'Okay, the app wants to know...' — and suddenly you're in a real conversation.
Sonder — the realization that every person you pass is living a life as vivid and complex as your own.
That stranger on the train has their own stories, fears, dreams, inside jokes. So does your partner. So does your kid. So does your colleague you've worked with for three years.
Sync — that moment when you share something real and they say 'me too.'
SonderSync. Discover your people.