The assumption
Love is not a strategy. Unspoken assumptions about money, risk, and the future are the silent killers of relationships.
You can love each other deeply and still crash the ship. Unspoken assumptions about money, risk, and where you want to live are the silent killers of relationships.
Don't just hope for the best. Plan for it.
"We'll figure it out."
Famous Last Words
SonderSync provides the agenda for the conversations that actually matter.
Sit down once a year. Review the wins, the losses, and set the North Star for the next 12 months.
Buying a house? Moving cities? Changing careers? Align your risk tolerance before you sign.
Stop fighting about the $5 latte. Start aligning on the 5-year wealth plan.
Serious questions for serious partners.
Understand emotional baggage before merging finances.
Vulnerability Meter
Level 1 is safe small talk. Level 10 requires total emotional exposure.
A safe space to say 'I want power'.
Vulnerability Meter
Level 1 is safe small talk. Level 10 requires total emotional exposure.
Playing to win vs playing not to lose.
Vulnerability Meter
Level 1 is safe small talk. Level 10 requires total emotional exposure.
Ensure you are climbing the same mountain.
Vulnerability Meter
Level 1 is safe small talk. Level 10 requires total emotional exposure.
Preparing for the 'What Ifs' to build security.
Vulnerability Meter
Level 1 is safe small talk. Level 10 requires total emotional exposure.
What remains when the money is gone?
Vulnerability Meter
Level 1 is safe small talk. Level 10 requires total emotional exposure.
Are you? Have you discussed what 'enough' means to each of you? Your risk tolerance? What happens if one wants to move cities?
These conversations will happen — during a crisis or by design. Better to have them when calm, with structure, than when desperate.
Before major decisions: buying property, changing careers, having kids. Or annually — the 'State of the Union' for your partnership.